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When Life Hurts
All of us experience hardships from
time to time. All of us face struggles that make little or no sense
to us. Sometimes the hurt comes from what others do to us. Sometimes
we cause our own pain. Sometimes it takes place at work, or in our
home or family, or in our finances. The fact is, there are times in
each person's life in which life hurts. God knew this was our
situation. And that is why He sent His Son to save us. A few months
after Jesus was born, we read of an event that reminds us just how
painful life can be. And, yet, we learn how much God loves us.
"Now when they had departed, behold, an
angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream, saying, 'Arise and
take the Child and His mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there
until I tell you; for Herod is going to search for the Child to
destroy Him.' And he arose and took the Child and His mother by
night, and departed for Egypt; and was there until the death of
Herod, that what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet might be
fulfilled, saying, 'Out of Egypt did I call My Son.' Then when Herod
saw that he had been tricked by the magi, he became very enraged, and
sent and slew all the male children who were in Bethlehem and in all
its environs, from two years old and under, according to the time
which he had ascertained from the magi. Then that which was spoken
through Jeremiah the prophet was fulfilled, saying, 'A voice was
heard in Ramah, weeping and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her
children; and she refused to be comforted, because they were no
more,' But when Herod was dead, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared
in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, saying, 'Arise and take the
Child and His mother, and go into the land of Israel; for those who
sought the Child's life are dead.' And he arose and took the Child
and His mother, and came into the land of Israel. But when he heard
that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in the place of his father
Herod he was afraid to go there. And being warned by God in a dream,
he departed for the regions of Galilee, and came and resided in the
city called Nazareth, that what was spoken through the prophets might
be fulfilled, 'He shall be called a Nazarene'" (Matt. 2:13-23).
This is not a warm fuzzy story. God sends His
Son to offer hope, and Herod causes the deaths of all the little boys
in an entire area. We can only imagine the suffering in those
families. Had they known this was caused by the birth of Jesus, they
might not have been so thrilled to know the Messiah had come. Yet, in
the midst of all this hurt, God demonstrates how much He cares for
us. Notice what we can learn:
God Is Involved In Life
God warns Joseph in dreams three times. The Lord is
watching all this and knows what Herod intends to do. So, God
intervenes by warning Joseph to save Jesus' life. Joseph and Mary
would have suffered the fate of all the other families if God had not
acted to save them. This is the good news in this story. God is not
on vacation. He is not way off in the distance watching our lives as
some disinterested being. He is involved in our lives, helping us
cope with the hurt that He sees. In fact, Jesus came to let us know
just how close God is. "Behold, the virgin shall be with Child,
and shall bear a Son, and they shall call His name Immanuel, which
translated means, 'God with us'" (Matt. 1:23). God sent His Son
to let us know that He is close by and wants to be involved in our
everyday lives. God is not only close, but He is busy in your
life. When you are hurting, it is often difficult to see God at work
around you. But He is caring and loving and working for your good.
God knows how much we hurt, and He stays close by to help.
Evil Acts To Hurt You
While God is busy helping, even to the point of
sending His Son to save us, Satan is busy doing all he can to ruin
our lives. Satan cannot beat God, but he can hurt God's people. So,
when God does the most wonderful thing imaginable, sending His Son to
the world, Satan does the most horrible thing imaginable, he attacks
children and families. This is a hard lesson for any of us. We think
(like those families in Bethlehem must have) that our suffering is
unfair. We think something must be wrong with our lives if we are
hurting this much. But this story teaches us that when God gets close
to us, Satan will come after us with all the tools at his disposal.
This means I cannot promise that if you become a Christian your
problems will go away. The opposite can be true as well. It is a fact
that Christians suffer in life just like other people. We have turned
to God, but Satan has turned against us with even greater fury. So,
when God comes into our lives, you can expect Satan to turn up the heat.
God Finishes His Plan
God knows what Joseph, Mary and Jesus need. So, the
Lord does all that is necessary to protect and save them. He warns
them to leave and head for Egypt. He tells them when it is time to go
back and even where to live when they get there. In spite of Herod
and his violence, God sees to it that His plan to save man is
protected. God sees His plan through to the end. God not only sees
His plan through, He uses all that Herod does to fulfill the
prophecies of the Old Testament. Satan does his worst in order to
derail God's plan, and God uses his actions to prove that Jesus is
the Christ. There is no action that Satan can take that God cannot
preempt and use for His own purposes. We must remember this
principle, especially when life hurts. When we are discouraged or
afflicted, it can seem that God and good are a long way off. Things
may look bleak, but God is still working to see that His plan for
your life is successful. "And we know that God causes all things
to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are
called according to His purpose" (Rom. 8:28). Paul doesn't say
all things are good for a Christian. What he does say is that even
the painful things we endure are going to be used by God to make good
happen in people's lives. Yes, the families of Bethlehem suffered,
but God is acting to save the whole world. So, when life looks bad,
remember, God is working out His Will in your life and in countless others.
Evil Cannot Stand
The incarnation of Jesus is a joyful event,
even though many people suffered. It is joyful because it proves that
evil will not be able to stand in the long run. The coming of Jesus
to save the world proves that Satan loses. Whatever he does to attack
God or God's people will not last. Satan can cause pain. He can
create suffering. He could use Herod to attack the little boy, Jesus,
and hope to be successful. But all of Satan's evil did not stop God.
This is the good news. God sees to it that Jesus and His family are
saved. God knows how wicked Satan can be. He knows Satan can inflict
much suffering on people. But, God still wins, as His Son will grow
up, will teach and will go to the cross to save us from our sins. And
God knows Jesus will come out of that tomb with victory over the
enemy. "But thanks be to God, Who gives us the victory through
our Lord Jesus Christ" (1 Cor. 15:57).
So Let God Help You
When life hurts, instead of blaming God, turn toward
Him and let Him help. When God warned Joseph, Joseph did not argue
with God, he just got up and left for Egypt. Joseph didn't make
excuses or think he knew better than God how to be safe. He let God
help him, and it saved Jesus' life. When you are hurting, you can
turn to a Savior Who knows what you are going through. Look at what
Jesus experienced as a child. He was a refugee from Palestine. He had
to hide in Egypt to escape death. When He came home, He couldn't go
home, He had to move to still another village. This family and little
boy went through a lot of stress and turmoil. This means you can turn
to a Lord who is not only close, but who is able to understand what
you are feeling. "For we do not have a high priest who cannot
sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all
things as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore draw near with
confidence to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may
find grace to help in time of need" (Heb. 4:15,16).
Listen To God's Call
Joseph obeyed God without questioning. In the middle
of the night, he took his family to escape Herod's plot. He didn't
waste time, he didn't take time to do much of anything. He just left.
Maybe he left all of most of their household goods. Maybe they just
took what they could carry. There was not much time for anything
else. He heard God, and he listened and obeyed. God can work in your
life when you listen and obey. If you are not saved, you can face
life hurts and suffering with confidence in God's ultimate victory.
But, to enjoy that hope, you must listen and obey. Notice what Jesus
says, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all
creation. He who has believed and has been baptized shall be saved;
but he who has disbelieved shall be condemned" (Mk. 16:15,16).
Joseph immediately did what God commanded. Be like him and be
baptized into Christ for the remission of your sins today. You will
still face life's hurts, but you will be part of God's plan, and that
means you win!
-- David Thurman
in Gospel Minutes (Vol. 56, No. 3; Jan. 19, 2007).
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